Finding ‘Real’ love is not as easy as it seems. It is far more difficult when you are not really clear in your head whether it is love or just mixed up feelings. But we all know that deep down there is a voice in our mind that just wouldn’t shut up. Have you ever been in a situation asking yourself whether the man you are with right now, is he there for the correct reasons or not. In this post, we will be giving you an insight on the difference between a guy who truly loves you as compared to a man who is just degenerating your time.
Tolerant Vs. Respectful
The right guy, the guy who loves you, will also respect everything about you and will appreciate you for the different opinions you have. Whereas the guy who tells you that your opinion is wrong or agrees to let you reflect what you want devoid of trusting that your opinion is as important as theirs.
Controlling Vs. Encouraging
A man who truly loves his lady love will always embolden her to follow new experiences and opportunities. The man who loves her rightfully may also introduce new and potential opportunities to her. But the most interesting thing is that he will certainly not force her into something she is not comfortable with.
Cruel Vs. Honest
Men who love their girls will tell them honestly what they need to hear. For example, if you question him on how you look in blue skirt and he asks you to change it, that doesn’t mean that he’s being evil. He is simply being honest. But, if a guy who insults you on things like your grace or asks you to lose weight, you need to get rid of such a loser. Such a person does these things as he doesn’t love you.
Clingy Vs. Affectionate
Do you want a man in your life who texts, call or wants to meet you 24/7? Well, I’m sure you do and it sounds hell good, but think of it this way the need of constantly checking up on you or getting a reassurance of their place in your life is an indication that he is in this relation more for himself then for you. A clingy man has serious emotional problems and wants to spend time or talk to you so he feels confirmed not for you to feel good.
Possessive Vs. Protective
It’s natural to be protective about something you care for. For example, if you two are at a club and he keeps you close with his arms around your shoulders that is cool. But, if doesn’t allow you to go anywhere alone or starts fighting when you talk to another guy, then he is definitely possessive.
Interested Vs. Serious
A man who is not serious about you and is only interested will talk you when it’s convenient for him. This should be expected when your relationship is in its early stage. But, if you two have been in a relationship for more than an year or you two are committed and he still talks to you only when it’s convenient for him then it’s not a good sign, he is obviously not in love. You will know that he is the right man, when you take a step back and analyze your relationship, your interactions and your overall level of happiness.
Author Bio:
Shakir Hassan is an SEO and blogger. She writes tech reviews for Top10BestPro.
